Middle School Cotillion – Manners for Life
We are looking forward to our twenty-forth cotillion season beginning in September. We are looking forward to being back to some kind of normal by then but we are prepared to adjust to whatever changes come our way. Our goal is to present an experience that provides social skills and manners training but more importantly one that prepares middle schoolers for the new experiences they will encounter over the next few years. We will be attentive to whatever health requirements are in place in September.
Tuition is required with registration. Registrations submitted without tuition will be placed on a waiting list and a place in class will not be confirmed in a class until payment is received.
Dates and times are subject to adjustment.
We appreciate your support and look forward to seeing those sweet, smiling faces in September!
Sixth Grade Program
The Sixth Grade program focuses on basic social skills, party manners and dining skills to young students who are entering what can be an awkward age. Dances include the beach shag, box-step and other traditional dance. Our goal is to help them be comfortable in new situations, to give them skills to make new friends and to ease the awkwardness of mixed gender events. They leave with a good dose of self-confidence! Classes have equal numbers of girls and boys and students are accepted on a first come, first served basis.
Putting your best foot forward:
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First things first: Shaking hands, introductions, sitting and standing, and buffet manners
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The “man” in mannerly/ladies first? Not so fast!: Rising, jackets, doors, seating, primping, and excusing yourself
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Correspondence: Thank you notes, email, invitations, and RSVPs
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Dining with grace: Place settings, table manners, and mini-meal
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May I have this dance? The finale of the season is a Formal ball with dancing, contests, dessert and waltzing with mom or dad
Seventh & Eighth Grade
The Seventh-Eighth Grade program has been developed so that students who did not attend 6th grade classes can still join their classmates in 7th or 8th grade. The curriculum is new even to students who attended cotillion in 6th grade, though we do review the basics over the course of the season. The dance component is also different so everyone starts from the same place. This program is event driven and gives students real life experience in a variety of social situations such as meet and greets, interviewing, theater, a golf and country club experience and much more.
Social Survival Skills:
- No Blunder Basics: Manners in Public/Meeting and Greeting/First Impressions
- Sports and Country Club Etiquette: Golf clinic, sports etiquette, ordering from a menu.
- Interviewing: Interviewing Skills/Mock Interview/Dressing for Success/Following Up
- Theater Event: Alhambra Theater/Manners in Public/Why they're important and how bad manners affect others/Dining Event
- Foreign and Fancy Foods: Handling food that’s hard to eat/Ordering from a Menu/Tipping
- What's all this stuff on the table? Formal Dining/Five Course Meal/Toasting/RSVPs
- Dinner-Dance: Putting it all together
2024 - 2025 Manners for Life Schedule
6th Grade
San Jose Country Club, Sundays
Class 1: 1:00 p.m. – 2:30 p.m.
Class 2: 3:00 p.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Sunday, September 12
Saturday, September 25
Sunday, October 10
Sock Hop, UNF University Center
Sunday, November 7
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Saturday, February 5 (Time TBD)
Black and White Ball
University of North Florida, University
7th - 8th Grade
Classes are at San Jose Country Club unless otherwise noted.
Saturday, September 11, 2:00-4:00
Pizza Mixer
San Jose Country Club
Sunday, September 26, 11:30-4:15
“The Sound of Music”
Alhambra Theater
Saturday, October 9, 2:00-4:00
Interview Class
San Jose Country Club
Saturday, November 6, 10:45-1:00
Golf Etiquette, Clinic and lunch (time TBD)
San Jose Golf Course
Saturday, January 8, 2022, 1:00-3:00
Professional Dance Lesson
Monarch Ballroom
Friday, February 5, 2021
Formal Dinner Dance
San Jose Country Club
Time TBD
ALL DATES AND TIMES SUBJECT TO ADJUSTMENT
Dress Code
The dress code is an important aspect of teaching students respect for each other, for their host/hostess and the shared values of our culture. Dress for the first class is found below. Please be fair to other students by adhering to the dress codes. We may vary the dress codes slightly for some of the classes.
Ladies (First Class)
Ladies should wear dresses or skirts of knee length or longer. A dress with shoulders or spaghetti straps (sundresses, halter dresses, etc.) may be worn only if covered with a shrug, sweater or other wrap during the entire event. Pants, gauchos, leggings, etc. are not appropriate. Ladies are encouraged to wear closed toe shoes suitable for dancing. Flip-flops, athletic shoes and boots are not allowed. Short white gloves will be provided at the first class.
Gentlemen (First Class)
Gentlemen should wear a dress shirt and tie, navy blazer and khaki or gray pants, belt, dark socks and dress shoes (no athletic shoes or flip-flops).
The End-of-the-Season Ball is black tie. Specific information will be provided closer to the time of the event.
Seventh-Eighth Grade Program: The dress code above is generally used for seventh-eighth grade but some of the classes require a different dress code and will vary. Students will be asked to dress appropriately for each class (golf, theater, dance class, meet and greet) and information will be provided prior to each class.
San Jose Country Club
Jacksonville, Florida 32217